Looking a good helper

Let me introduce my family. We are a family of three, consisting of myself, my husband, and a girl who is almost 4 years old. Currently, we live in a house of around 400 square feet with two bedrooms. Our child sleeps with us. We currently have a domestic helper who assists our family. Both adults in our family have to work from 9:00 to 18:00 every day. I need someone who can take care of household chores during the day while we are at work. This includes cleaning and purchasing daily necessities from the market. We don't require the helper to cook lunch for us on weekdays, but we do need them to prepare dinner for us. As for our child, she goes to school from 8:30 to 16:30. So, she only has dinner with us (excluding school holidays). Until now, our child still needs assistance with feeding, which takes about an hour and a half. Therefore, I require someone who is patient to handle this task. Currently, she is going through a rebellious phase and doesn't follow our instructions. I need someone who can discipline her firmly when necessary instead of giving in to her every whim. I need a helper who is patient, willing to learn, and capable of completing tasks without constant supervision.