Chinese family look for kind patient helper

I’m looking for a long-term, live-in male helper to care for my 13-year-old son who has a serious medical condition called FIRES (Febrile Infection-Related Epilepsy Syndrome). Because of this illness, he experiences seizures, mood swings (including occasional anger outbursts), and physical weakness. He cannot walk for long periods, and sometimes needs a wheelchair. He also needs to take medication regularly and be watched closely. I need someone who is: • Very patient and emotionally stable • Kind and gentle, especially when dealing with children with special needs • Willing to play with him, talk to him, and help him stay active and happy • Absolutely non-violent — I do not tolerate any shouting, physical punishment, or unkind behavior • Able to cook simple meals, do housework, and help him with daily routines My previous helper was not suitable for this role, so I’m looking for the right person who truly understands the patience and care required. If you know someone suitable or are interested, please contact me. I can manage the medical part myself — I just need a helper who can give my son daily care, attention, and kindness.